Failure is one thing which most of us experience in our life in abundance.And that is when our elders console us with their experiences and examples.I totally agree with this custom but there is a different angle to it. Example (Since I’m SRK’s fan, let me use his name in a movie) Rahul has participated in a reality show and is eliminated in the 2nd round it self. We hear his parents saying on the camera “never mind, he learnt a lot here and we would come next year as well”. This sounds perfect. But is the same thing said behind the closed doors? Or you hear them saying “oh Rahul, never mind beta, we know you dance better than the kids there its ok. Even they would get eliminated in the next round”. That day these words act wonders and Rahul gets his peace back but what effect these words make on his tender mind is unknown to both the parentsand the child.
