By Choice or By Nature

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In our day to day life we come across many types of people. We mostly jell with people whose frequency matches with ours. Frequency matching is nothing else but we share something in common. Maybe the same home town, same college, same food habits, same thinking patterns etc etc.

But with people whom we initially interact but later realize that those are not “our type” people we start ignoring or sidelining them. Maybe coz somewhere we feel that their opinions contradict ours or we dislike some of their habits or maybe their attitudes towards other people.

This is very easy when it comes to relations with friends or any acquaintances but it becomes really difficult when it’s with relatives, cousins, neighbors or colleagues, or in laws. Coz these are the people whom you meet quite often. As a result we often hear people saying that we don’t like his/her nature, he’s short tempered, too egoistic, very professional, self centered so on and so forth. But lately what I have realized is there is one important thing which makes a person behave in a particular manner and that is its “upbringing”.

Always Listen to Your Heart !!

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Love is One of the most difficult four letters for mankind to understand and one of the wonderful feeling to be in. our entire world move around it .its gives us happiness , faith and hope if we love someone or being loved by someone. It is a divine bonding which makes people together though they are miles away and always keeps their sweet, unforgettable memories live, also keeps faith and hopes in each other to meet on fine day.

Bible says God is Love , everyone  blessed with love so we can feel his voice from our inner consciousness . Many times when we are in dilemma and not able to decide which is correct way , when our rational mind have lot of ifs and buts than suddenly we feels one more voice coming  from our heart and often that tells us to do something different , which may not have logical explanation though we drop all rational conclusion and particle theories a side and go for what heart says and we achieve what he wants for us and we say “Thank God ,I always listen to my heart”

How crazy are you for Cricket ?..My first ever live cricket match from Nehru Stadium, Pune

Related Posts with ThumbnailsIt’s in April’2003, a one day cricket match being played in Pune (After a very long awaited period of time).

A first experience of life to watch a one day international sitting in a full house stadium.
Me with my other 3 friends were standing in a queue for Tickets for 41 non stop hours outside Nehru stadium, Pune.
We had 4 Break Fast, 2 lunch and 2 dinners standing in the line itself JOn the match-day we started at 3 am from home for Nehru Stadium to acquire a good location in the stadium, match scheduled to start at 8:30 am.

Other Side Of Motivation

Related Posts with ThumbnailsFailure is one thing which most of us experience in our life in abundance.And that is when our elders console us with their experiences and examples.I totally agree with this custom but there is a different angle to it. Example (Since I’m SRK’s fan, let me use his name in a movie) Rahul has participated in a reality show and is eliminated in the 2nd round it self. We hear his parents saying on the camera “never mind, he learnt a lot here and we would come next year as well”. This sounds perfect. But is the same thing said behind the closed doors? Or you hear them saying “oh Rahul, never mind beta, we know you dance better than the kids there its ok. Even they would get eliminated in the next round”. That day these words act wonders and Rahul gets his peace back but what effect these words make on his tender mind is unknown to both the parentsand the child.

Summer Rain Drops

Come , let’s see one beautiful rainy day in extreme summer from my eye. In summer in any place where people gets rid of, everywhere people found lots of heat, becomes thirsty and now a days because of cutting trees problem it becomes very difficult for everyone to live or sustain in summer. The person who normally walks will become tired. People will not find shelter to wait for few minutes, It will be danger to look around by naked eye especially black tar roads. Dehydration is the common problem in these days and people can easily fall sick. Acidity will be common problem. Daily news says many people die because of heat stroke. Person cannot do much in summer, we don’t prefer to go outside any place as far as possible. one fine day in this summer I was going to meet someone in nearer village. Initially I went through bus where bus was fully heated and giving feel that i was sitting in pressure cooker. No AC, windows were open but only hot winds were coming through it, outside it was so bright that i was not able to see for a moment also. I don’t know how driver is managing from his cabin. Temperature nearly crossed 40 degree, I saw a thirsty little boy , even his parents were disturbed by this heat. I was also thirsty so I took 2 lemon candies and gave one to that little boy. He feels very fresh by eating that candy so do I though it was temporary relief. Bus was going by its speed, I saw at driver and feel very bad about him as he was sharing his cabin with bus engine where temperature was at least 5 degrees more. There were no trees on the road it felt so sad and thought why people are cutting these tress. So in all everywhere discouragement was taking place.

Where Are We Going India ?


“Hi”, “bye”, “see ya”, “take care”, “wats up” these are some of the few words which we hear almost every hour. Our day starts with “good morning” dad/mom and ends with “good night”“honey/Sweetie”.

Wearing Adidas or Reebok is considered to be cool even if costs us half of a months salary.Our teenagers get nightmares of Hindi and Sanskrit exams but clearing English is simply no big deal to those folks. Reading English newspapers are a must as it improves the vocabulary but Hindi daily is a waste as it gives no rate for its Raddi(scrap).

MJ is the God of popping and locking but ask us the spelling of kathakalli(An Indian classical dance form) the answer would be which kali.Coke and Pepsi is one drink w/o which any party would not be complete and the best part is if it’s left out then could be used as cleaner in the bathroom.